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well all of you who think it is a bad word well its not: all of you who are afriad of it you shouldent be: but lets be honest sex is like fire: it can be very constructive and very destructive depending on the use: now what they DONT teach you in soul or on TV or in Movies is what really happens when you have sex with people: you give them a peice of your soul: you exchange peices: they walk away with a little of you and you walk away with a little of them: this is why it hurts so much when you sleep with people and they leave you: this is why you get so angry when people sleep with you then walk away: this is why there is so much pain: that is well if you feel your heart: because most people start off with a whole soul: when your a child when you look at the world with big eyes: remember when you first feel in love remember the first kiss the first touch how you felt so much: what happened the next thing you know nothing makes you feel anything: so you do more and more and you have to sleep with more and more people: sex is no longer about feeling it becomes a game: nothing more then how much or many you can score: or you get hurt and then you become angry and you HATE women you Hate men: then they become nothing more to you then meat: bones: fleash: in and out: no love: no care just use abuse and throw away:

sex can be amazing with trust with commitment with love: without those things sex will harm you and the other: you may tell me i am wrong you may tell me that sex is meaningless: ask you heart though: really ask you heart: reflect look back: look inside: look at why you feel that way: chances are someone hurt you someone broke your heart and took a peice of you since then you have felt empty: i have been on both sides of the fence: i now see sex as a beautiful thing: a treasure: but i also see it as sacred: not to be abused: like a precious gem or your innermost secrets: it is precious: if used and abused it causes harm and pain:

yes we all get over it: yes we can heal: yes sex is fun: i will never say it is not: i enjoy it very much: but i am also aware of the damage done: i have had countless conversations with those who were raped, abused, molested, lied to, used, who afterwards struggle with there worth as a human being as there worth in life: this is because people have misused sex: most those who do these things had them done to them so it is a cycle that never ends: unless those of us who are here now or anytime make a choice not to continue the cycle not to continue harm:: there is nothing wrong with sex: it is why you do it: if you just want to come there is this wonderful thing called mastrubation: now i have heard it is evil from relgious orginizations for years: but i read the bible a few hundred times and needless to say there is no mention what so ever that says " do not touch yourself " : so what i am saying is look if it is a choice between hurting someone else please go please yourself: if you are not 100 percent comfortable please go play alone: dont do it just to be hip or fit in or because you think thats how you will find love: cause you won't find love that way: love and sex go together but you don't get one because of the other:

there is nothing wrong with waiting: there is nothing wrong with taking your time: don't let people pressure you: no one owes anyone anything: if you don't want to do it don't do it:

as i said i love to make love have sex

have fun

 

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