1. something inside of you doesn't sit well   2. if they start feeding you lots of praise's about superficial things  3. if they tell you trust them right away  4. if they keep telling you it wont hurt you chances are it will  5. if they have to convince you it is ok it most likely isn't   6. if they try to get you too drink when you say no   7. if they try to get you to do drugs  after you say no   8. if they try to get you naked after you say no  9 . if they tell you they will be there forever they are lying because none of us know how long we will be around   10. if they tell you they can make you a star  11.if they tell you that it will help your career if you do this or that which is something you dont want to do.   12. if someone really loves you they will wait they wont push you  13. if someone really cares they wont go away even if you say not now or latter   they will have time make time.  14. if they tell you so and so did it   15. if you have the slightest doubt look into it acknowledge it   

you see we all have instinct we all have gut feelings it is just allot of us ignore them and granted sometimes I want to turn mine off too. like when I want to get trashed and forget the world and it says " Jillian you will be hung over" and I say shut up I want to drink anyway. Well it is always right and the next day I have to deal with the consequences. So now if your gut tells you something is going to hurt you and you dont listen chances are you will hurt. If it tells you not to trust someone chances are you should keep your distance and observe them. You can tell a tree by its fruit just like if you watch a person and people come and go and no one stays chances are there is a reason.
listen to your heart it will save you lots of pain also.....if someone wont look you in the eye think twice...

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